Let’s talk about a reality many women face but few openly discuss:
Starting over financially after a divorce and trying to buy (or sell) a home in today’s market.
The emotional weight of ending a marriage is hard enough. But when it’s paired with rising mortgage rates, expensive rent, and the pressure to secure a new home for yourself (and maybe your kids)? That’s a whole other level of stress.
And here’s something not many people will say out loud:
You might need help and that’s OK.
The Rise of “The Bank of Mom and Dad” And Why It Matters
According to Savills, more than half of first-time buyers in 2024 needed financial help from their families commonly referred to as “The Bank of Mum and Dad.” The average amount? A staggering £55,572 (about $70,000 USD).
This isn’t just about young couples buying starter homes.
It includes women starting over after divorce.
It includes moms trying to give their kids stability.
It includes people like you navigating a huge life change while trying to make smart financial moves.
Why It’s So Hard to Buy Solo Right Now
Let’s face it the market isn’t easy on anyone, but especially not on single-income households. You may be dealing with:
- A reduced household income after divorce
- High rent that makes it difficult to save for a down payment
- Mortgage rates that are higher than expected
- The emotional toll of letting go of a former home filled with memories
And if you’re selling a house due to divorce? That’s a whole other emotional (and logistical) process from splitting proceeds to untangling joint mortgages.
What This Means for You
First, know this:
You are not behind. You’re not failing. And you’re not the only one needing support.
In fact, 52% of buyers last year had financial help from family. And while that’s slightly down from the 57% the year before, it’s still one of the highest rates in over a decade. The world has changed and doing it alone is no longer the norm.
So what are your options?
If You’re Selling a Home After Divorce
Let’s strategize.
Selling your marital home can be emotionally charged — but also financially freeing. We’ll help you understand how to protect your credit, time the market, and walk away with as much equity (and peace of mind) as possible.
If You’re Buying a Home on Your Own
Whether you have family support or not, you’re not without options.
If you do have family help
Let’s structure it wisely whether it’s a gift or a loan. A poorly written agreement could hurt your mortgage approval. We’ll make sure it’s done right.
If you don’t
That’s where strategy comes in. There are 100% financing options, first-time buyer programs, and renovation loans designed to help buyers exactly like you. We’ll find a path that fits your situation and your goals.
If You’re a Parent Wanting to Help a Divorced Child
There are smart ways to offer support without compromising your own financial future. Whether it’s co-signing, gifting, or buying together, we’ll guide you through the safest route.
The Big Picture
Divorce changes everything emotionally and financially. But it doesn’t have to stop you from moving forward.
This is a housing market that demands support, planning, and creative solutions. And at Femme Capital Partners, we specialize in helping women navigate moments just like this — whether you’re walking away from a house that hurt you, or dreaming of the place where your next chapter begins.
Ready to Talk?
Let’s Make Your Next Chapter a Strategic One
Whether you’re walking away from a house filled with memories…or dreaming of the one that finally feels like yours — you don’t have to figure it out alone.
We specialize in helping women through transitions like this. Let’s create a smart, supportive game plan — one that’s grounded in strategy, not stress.
🎯 We’ll help you:
Understand where your credit and finances stand post-divorce
Explore financing options that work for your unique situation
Build a path forward — on your own terms
📅 Book your FREE Planning Session today.
Starting over doesn’t mean starting from scratch. Let’s map out a mortgage plan that supports your fresh start—schedule a free 1-on-1 with a Femme Capital advisor today.